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Love At First FightAt Love At First Fight, we provide a proven, research-based alternative to couples counseling, so you can improve your relationship or marriage quickly.With over 20,000 marriages and relationships transformed, we help struggling couples move past their differences, resolve conflict and get back on the same page together.We believe that love isn’t a mystery; it’s a skill you can learn.Imagine a world where every couple has the tools to navigate conflict with ease - raising children who grow up knowing what deep, secure love feels like. That’s the future we're building one couple at a time.
Love At First Fight (loveatfirstfight.com) has 281 customer reviews on Consumer Courier, with an average rating of 4.8 out of 5.
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Nicholas W.
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Even doing the course on my own has helped out relationship to a point that my spouse is open to joining
Response from Love At First Fight· Jan 27, 2026
Hi Nicholas, great job taking the course on your own and creating enough change that your spouse is now open to joining. That’s a big win for both of you, and I wish you all the best as you continue this process together. - Bruce
Nicola C.
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Almost at the end of this course and it has been a real eye opener. It has helped me understand myself and why I do things so much better. Realised that I had no idea how to be in a long term, secure relationship. Unfortunately my husband and I are not together anymore. We tried it together for the first week and he decided it was not for him and things were too far gone to change, so we separated. However after going through the Rapid repair module I realised why, as he felt I had betrayed him and there was no way just trying to reconnect was going to be enough for him. If only I had found this course before, then I believe we would not be separated, but at least I know that I have improved and grown in myself and hopefully if I am in another relationship I will know what to do to make it work. It does take effort from both of you with watching the videos and doing the workbooks but I do feel it is worth it. And even if you doing it on your own it is still a good course.
Response from Love At First Fight· Jan 27, 2026
HI Nicola, thank you for sharing so openly about your journey and for recognizing the growth you’ve created for yourself through the course, even in the midst of a tough separation. I’m glad you’re walking forward with more clarity and confidence in how to build a secure relationship next time... well done, and I appreciate you for being so honest. - Bruce
annet
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I wish we did the training "Love at first Fight" 30 years ago when our powerstruggle started. It would have made our marriage so much more peaceful. Now, 30 years later, we were at the point of divorce. Now, after following the training we are more connected than ever. THANK YOU so much Bruce!
Response from Love At First Fight· Jan 15, 2026
Hi Annet, I’m grateful you shared that the course helped you step back from the brink of divorce and find your connection again. Well done for fighting for your marriage. It's made my day to read this - Bruce
joshua G.
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Participating in this course has re-opened channels in our relationship that had all but shut down! In connecting and communicating better, there has definitely been a re-ignition of the 'spark', which we are both working on. My wife and I see this as a blessing, as very practical and doable things are laid out. We also recognize and deeply appreciate the huge effort it must have taken to structure a course like this. We have been sharing our experience thus far with a few friends as well, and look forward to completing the course to reap its full benefits.
Response from Love At First Fight· Jan 15, 2026
Hi Joshua, it’s wonderful to hear that the course helped reopen those shut-down channels and even sparked new energy between you. Thank you for sharing your experience with others, it means a lot - Bruce
JADE G.
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My husband and I tried couples counselling and it never got us very far. The difference is this course is all about the effort and the information given. You listen to each module and you both do the work and because your both invested in the time and effort you see results. Already me and my husband have started talking about our feelings instead of blame (my husband pulled on his ear lobes this morning to remind me!). I am seeing a shift in our attitudes towards each other, more kindness and connection also more validation for each others feelings (which has been a game changer for me). Bruce is a very knowledgeable, motivating, kind and optimistic teacher and it shows in his videos. We will be keeping all the info and reviewing it in the future to help keep our marriage a positive, loving and respectful team. Thanks Bruce!
Response from Love At First Fight· Jan 15, 2026
Hi Jade, I’m smiling at the ear-lobe reminder and glad to read that the two of you are moving toward real conversations and more kindness. I'm thrilled that the course has landed differently for you, and thank you for the kind words. - Bruce
Lou K.
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Am grateful that this course came my way. Am at week 4 into the course and already feel more connected to my partner. It is full of fantastic tips. The course has helped me recognise that the problems in my relationship are faced by many couples and it has helped me to judge myself and my partner less. The course is very practical and gives concrete things to work on. One of the immediately useful tips is to connect first, then communicate, and learning that you and your partner may have different needs from childhood experiences and different love languages. The course has helped me learn more about myself and my partner. My partner has now joined and he agrees that it is a fantastic course.
Response from Love At First Fight· Dec 26, 2025
I’m glad to hear you’re feeling more connected and seeing how practical tools like connecting first can change things so quickly, and it’s great that your partner has joined you in the work. Thanks for taking the time to share your experience here, and well done for leaning into it. -Bruce.
Shahra S.
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It’s truly been an eye opener to go through the course week upon week and invest in finding each other again. We have been stuck in the fighting stage for the last 22 years. The benefits of this course permeates to all my other relationships too. I’m more grounded and more certain of myself. I have stopped numbing myself or exploding due to the frustration of not being listened to, heard or validated and empathised. I have had to travel in the midst of the course and was be able to self soothe. I feel totally emancipated and liberated from cycle of my past repeating. Free from feeling trapped and despondent with no hope or light at the end of a dark tunnel. Thank you Bruce. Whatever the outcome of our relationship I’m better having done the course. Many thanks Shahra
Response from Love At First Fight· Dec 24, 2025
Hi Shahra, it sounds like you’ve spent years stuck in the fight and chose to stop numbing out or blowing up, finding your own grounding and hope again, even in the middle of travel and uncertainty. Well done for seeing it through and reclaiming yourself - Bruce
Aparna
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This is my first course with Bruce, and I must say I am very impressed with the way he explains everything and the guidelines he provides.
Response from Love At First Fight· Dec 17, 2025
Hi Aparna I’m glad the explanations and guidelines are landing for you and that the course is making a strong first impression. Thanks for taking the time to leave a review. -Bruce
