No More DesireReviews of nomoredesire.com

Like many men, I've struggled with compulsive pornography use for a long time, despite a desire to change. Jake's podcast was one of the few places where I heard a message of hope that for the rest of my life I didn't have to rely on silly streaks and willpower tricks; after joining the Academy, I can confirm that the hope has a real foundation! Jake really knows how to get down to the roots of this struggle, with compassion and honesty. He asks great questions and has a deep well of recovery knowledge. From day one, I have been learning real tools (and acronyms), finding real support, and seeing real results. Don't get me wrong, Jake doesn't sell recovery, you have to do the work yourself. But he is an excellent coach who has a proven methodology and path to healing if you're willing to put in the effort and trust the process. I'm about a month and a half in, and already I'm seeing huge results in how I relate to urges and show up in everyday life.

No More Desire offers one an abundance of tools, information and support for overcoming dependence on internet porn. The material that Jake provides is refreshingly non-judgmental, detailed, and practical. It is comprehensive and addresses underlying causes, not only the tip of the iceberg. Jake is very active on the site and has responded quickly and directly to my questions. He is focused on what works and is generous with offering his insight and encouragement. I appreciate Jake's honesty about his own struggles and I relate to him as a mentor and fellow traveller on the road to recovery. I have spent years fighting with my addiction using 12 step groups, therapists and on my own and although I am in early stages, it is already proving to be a very promising method.

I’ve had a struggle with addiction for many many years, I believe Jake Castlemen with No More Desire his company and program are by far the best overall program I’ve ever seen in helping people with pornography addiction. I believe one of the reasons one of the main reasons that it successful is JAKE has walked this journey himself so he completely understands what you’re going through that gives JAKE a very objective and comprehensive knowledge of how to fight against pornography addiction if you practice the things that you learn through one-on-one coaching and his other programs like inner circle, you can be very successful with this if you have the desire to change yourself, you can and this program offers many many resources to help you.

Jake's RAIL Method online course helped me come to a better understanding of myself through parts work. By seeing that the underlying core desire driving the unwanted fantasy is good and God given - when I analyze the fantasy and am able to connect it to past events that were instrumental in developing the sexualized way I sought to meet and fulfill the underlying core desire, I can see that the part of me that acted out wanted to help, but was simply believing lies and was misguided in how it tried to satisfy that desire. For me, understanding the "why" behind what I was attracted to in this way helps me see what a fraud the acting out was (even though it's motive was to calm/soothe, meet needs), thus decreasing its power over me. So with these dots connected, now when I analyze the fantasy I feel more like I'm investigating a crime scene and it loses the sexual excitement which is replaced with compassion for the inner little boy whose needs weren't met. So when triggered, it's much easier to connect to the unmet desire in my thinking rational brain which makes it easier to turn to productive ways to regulate and meet that need.

I’ve been sober for 5 months now, this was my first attempt at seriously trying to get sober and it’s made a huge difference in my life, I find myself being much more mindful, loving myself more and realizing I’m not alone, and not broken. My sobriety journey really took a turn once I started working with Jake, he’s a cool dude and he really understands what I’m going through, and how to help me through it. I think working with Jake is the best choice I could have made for my sobriety, and now I’m looking forward towards a better, happier future.

I struggled a lot with self doubt and thinking that I had to be perfect all the time. Jake helped me see that there are beauties in imperfections and that they're a part of being human, along with helping me see the importance in painful emotions and how much sometimes we all need some grace. Over time he helped me see that difficult emotions are just another way for different parents of our mind to show us that they care or are in pain. This has helped me feel peace and helps me enjoy life a lot more.

Working with Jake has completely changed my perspective on life, and has helped me stay sober for over 5 months now. For the first time in years I feel fully connected, in harmony with myself and the principles I believe, but more importantly, at peace with who I am. Jake's ability to connect and relate are unmatched, and I would leave every session feeling like my eyes had been opened to a new level of understanding on life that changed my self-talk, my relationship with my spouse and my ability to connect with my children. Every lesson in the program felt incrementally tailored to my needs, and were exactly the building blocks I needed to be able to live and have a sobriety lifestyle and mindset.

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