Loving Without Boundaries, Kitty ChamblissReviews of lovingwithoutboundaries.com

I was really good at monogamy for the first 27 years of my marriage. When I inadvertently wandered off the ranch, I struggled with if/how to tell my wife. After some research and many sleepless nights, I took the unconventional approach of proposing ethical non-monogamy. That didn’t land too well, and couples therapy didn’t help us make any progress. So, I was super-excited when I discovered Kitty and her LWB program. My wife and I went through the 8-week program along with dozens of other couples and individuals online. It was just what we needed…a forum to learn more about ourselves and the possibilities in front of us, to openly discuss and normalize the situation, and to prepare us both to make whichever decision would be best for each of us. Kitty and her team were so supportive, encouraging and loving throughout the process and ongoing. In the end, my wife and I chose to transition to a loving coparenting marriage with each having the latitude to pursue our best lives. This has been a far better path forward than the traditional storyline of divorce, anger and regret. Let Kitty and the communal LWB experience work its magic on your relationship, too. You won’t regret it!

“I met Kitty through a referral in early 2023 when I was in a place of feeling stuck in my marriage. Paralyzed is probably a betting description of how I was feeling. After watching Kitty’s masterclass, I knew she was the perfect person to help me navigate my journey. Kitty and her program were instrumental with getting me clarity on my identity and who I am at my core, as well as helping me recognize my true superhero and how I show up in the world. She also has provided me with amazing tools to help me navigate difficult conversations, manager jealousy and envy, and most important, how to live my most authentic life. I would recommend Kitty as a coach to anyone seeking similar support!”

Kitty, Bea, and the entire community have been life changing. The course work, content, and online events with the community are curated in a way that builds and advances your emotional maturity, communication skills, and ability to overcome your ego. Although Kitty specializes for alternative/poly lifestyles, these skills are applicable for all. This initial course was so life changing for me that I have continued my journey with Kitty and her team through her other offerings. I can’t thank them enough for guiding, building, and helping me become the person I am today. I also can’t thank the support you receive from others who participate in the course and really become lifelong friends who show nothing but compassion and support for everyone. If you’re on the fence - do it! This isn’t just a course about your relationship/s, but focuses on you.

Before I started the Create Healthy, Happy Open Relationship coaching, I was feeling jealous and insecure and I didn't have a clue how it might be possible for me to move beyond those feelings and create positive relationships with more than one person. With support, I am feeling positive, self confident and I have knowledge and a set of tools, which I am putting into practice in all relationships in my life. A short 9 weeks later, I am embodying the super hero traits of the person I want to be in the world and I know that it is possible for me to live an authentic, fulfilling polyamorous life

Thanks, Kitty. I appreciate everything you've done to get us this far! When I first reached out to you, I said “our relationship is in jeopardy” and I was fearful we would not make it another month. I'm forever grateful I have tools to use to continue to improve myself and our relationship. We are in a very different place than we were when I first reached out to you only a few short months ago. Once deciding to enroll in the program, it forces a couple to Stop, Observe, Strategize about their relationship and think deeply about what really is important and what you want life to look like, both individually and as a couple. Although Ben and I are still at different spots on the monogamous vs. polyamorous scale, I believe we respect where the other person is at, and are working together to move those spots closer on the scale, and be in a more unified space while also being true to who we are as individuals. I’m so happy I reached out to you, and am no longer living in daily fear. I was scared of this beautiful relationship ending, because we weren’t smart enough to communicate like adults, and were too stubborn to stop and listen respectfully to the other person! We communicate in a much different way than we did in April, and I’ll be forever grateful for your coaching that got us to this spot! I'm not sure what our relationship looks like in 3 months, 8 months, 3 years, 8 years...and that's ok. Today I'm grateful that we are best friends and life partners who adventure together through life by choice, not obligation, pursuing what is best for ourselves and each other while squeezing every drop out of our short life here on earth. I’m am so incredibly grateful for the program and you. My anxiety levels are lower than they have been in the past few years as we have attempted to navigate this space alone. In the past when Ben was with someone else I would panic and fear the worst but after your coaching and the tools you have provided I feel at ease when he's away and have learned how to control my negative emotions. You not only gave us tools to get our relationship back on track, you gave me peace of mind and relief from the overwhelming emotions I had dealt with for three years. You’re right Kitty, I can stand it. I get to go through life with this wonderful human. I’ve been given the opportunity to color outside the lines with him, and if it doesn’t work, I can still stand it. Forever grateful. Michele

My recent experience comes from my current marriage. Initially, I thought I was doing everything right, but I realized something was missing - something she needed to see in me. I took time to understand her body language, even when she didn't express it verbally. Many relationships fail because we forget to learn and grow together. One crucial aspect of improving a home's quality is giving your partner the respect they deserve. Respect is earned, not demanded. I've learned to love my wife unconditionally, and nothing she does bothers me. As a young couple, we've learned to bear with each other. Constant communication is another vital factor, regardless of the relationship's shape or form. It's the key to success in any relationship.

When I had entered this course, I was in such a space of blame with my partner, everything happening to me was his fault. We were close to completing our relationship. The first week taking this course was so eye-opening. Everything that was talked about validated what I had been experiencing and I quickly realized that I was also contributing to the challenges we were experiencing. Following several weeks of new awareness and resources, I was able to manage all the big emotions I was experiencing. Everything I learned was easy to apply and really worked. Now my partner and I catch our projections much quicker and have excellent communication skills when there are breakdowns. It saved our partnership! I am so glad I made this decision to take this course, it changed my life!!

I was super skeptical about doing this coaching series. I balked at the price, thought it sounded a bit like a sales pitch, and didn’t think it was for us because we’re not Poly. Hubs paid for it and said let’s do it, so I begrudgingly went along with it. I could not have been more wrong. I came to see just how much time and effort has been put into this, and continues to be. I’m wondering if at the tail end of this, if Kitty is making more than minimum wage for all the obvious hours she puts in! This isn’t a coaching course about just living outside the boundaries of heteronormative relationships. This is about how to live YOUR best life. The skills we’ve learned I use in every relationship I have, not just with my husband. I am so grateful for all we have achieved in this course. Each module, each call, each time we practice what we’ve learned, is SO VALUABLE! I’m still only about halfway thought the modules. Even with only being halfway through, the growth we’ve both made during this has allowed us to start having fun and meaningful encounters with like-minded people. The most beautiful part of it is that now, each time we have an encounter with someone in the non-monogamy setting (even when it’s over-the-top awesome), we realize how much we are grateful and just DELIGHTED to be enjoying life with each other. We really are the yin to each other’s yang. Take the chance. Do the work. You won’t regret it.