Loving Without Boundaries, Kitty ChamblissReviews of lovingwithoutboundaries.com

“My husband and I had opened things up in our marriage and things went badly. I realized I am polyamorous and he isn’t. We were in fear and out of trust. We needed a safe and effective place to go to address our issues without being judged. Kitty and her program were our answered prayers! I learned so much valuable information that I can apply to every relationship in my life, especially to my relationship with myself. Our marriage is more solid, our communication is healthier, and our connection is stronger. I am feeling more confident in myself and look forward to living our best lives together!” — Anna A.

Incredibly manipulative sales tactics! I found Kitty's website when searching for a poly coach, and signed up for a free "breakthrough sessions". The team member we spoke with asked about our relationship problems in detail, we spilled our hearts out, and she told us we absolutely needed help and would be good candidates for the course. It turns out the course is $9000. That's more than we can afford, so we told her it just wasn't an option for us, and she said that we would never fix our relationship without their help?! We said that we just didn't have the money, and she suggested we take out loans or borrow money from family or friends(!!!). She asked if we had kids (we don't), and said to imagine that a niece or nephew was in trouble and needed help—wouldn't we do anything to get the money to help them? Why wouldn't we do anything to get the money to help ourselves? Did we not care about our relationship? She then graciously told us that if we payed right now with a credit card, she could lower the price to $5000. If you have the money to pay for this course, I'm sure it must be decent (if I remember correctly, for $9000/$5000 you get 10 prerecorded lessons, access to a FB group, and two or three 30 minute conversations with one of their specialists, which seems a bit steep). My problem is not with the price, but with the way they lure you. They prey on people who are just trying to save their relationships and become better partners, which I honestly find disgusting. IN RESPONSE TO YOUR REPLY— If you have a recording of the call I would LOVE to hear it, to see exactly which parts I’m apparently remembering incorrectly (I never claimed to remember the exact details of the course—like I said, my criticism was of the sales tactics, not the course itself). If you have nothing to hide, feel free to send me the recording via email.

We first spoke with Kitty because my spouse was interested in her program. I was on the call just to please him. By the end of the first call, due to the conversation we had and the compassion I sensed from Kitty, we had decided to participate and pay the required fee. I am/was skeptical of polyamory and consider myself Monogamous. We participated whole-heartedly in Kitty‘s program. It did improve our relationship and provided personal growth for both of us. In my opinion, the program is well worth the cost. The people at LWB have been honest and helpful with us. I consider the money for the program well-spent. It did not change my feeling about monogamy/polyamory but I feel that I understand our relationship better now and can handle my emotions better than I have in the past.

The LWOB program helped me to become happier and more confident with myself! I am single and started to identify as ethically non-monogamous within the past couple of years. I’ve had some great relationships in my past, but many of them were ending in heartbreak and frustration since my partners identify as monogamous. This was causing me to feel shame and to think something was wrong with me, which only lead to more negative internal thoughts and a lack of confidence. The LWOB program brought me the following benefits: — Community: Mixture of non-monogamy and monogamous people who have the communication skills and shared experiences to help each other. — Tools: A variety of exercises to help me more clearly sort out my own thoughts and beliefs, along with a chance to practice how I communicate who I am and what I seek. — Wealth of Resources: There are so many videos, books, podcasts, websites, online community groups, etc that help to share other people’s journeys on what relationship style they seek and effective ways to live that life! — Confidence: Kitty and the LWOB program helped me find my MOJO again! I am excited and confident about sharing who I am, what I have to offer and the type of relationships that I seek, with other like-minded ethically non-monogamous people. Even though I’m finished with the program, I am still using many of the techniques I learned to communicate more clearly with people from all circles of my life while also having fun connecting with other non-monogamous friends and partners!

My husband and I found Kitty in our hardest, crisis moment, being skeptical at the start I dove in into her magical guided course. And what valuable tools we've found! She is like a wiz taking on a magical journey of self exploration, observation of your boundaries. Being comfortable with new dimensions of myself I gained confidence in voicing my needs and to myself and y partner. This is another gem that she can gift you, are keys to healthy communication. Overall very satisfied with how easy and user friendly her whole course went, and weekly calls were so beneficial to feel the spirit of transformation, of course there wr some stagnant moment in my experience, but I was always felt open to share it during the group or private and get wholesome help and support. Go Kitty, your mission is great, and Im wishing you only to thrive and flourish!

I reached out to Kitty as a last effort to save my marriage, my wife and I were in a very tough spot at the time. I admit we winced at the cost but knew that the chance to save our marriage was more than worth the cost. It was an amazing experience working with Kitty, she is a truly fantastic person and coach. We learned so much about ourselves and eachother throughout the program and also so many tools to utilize in every aspect of our lives from our relationship to parenting and even our professional lives. I am so very thankful to Kitty and the community of LWB for the support, patience and love that they openly share. It was a life changing decision and I can not express how grateful I am to have found her program and the LWB community.

Bad negative behavior and thought processes: once it becomes a habit, it feels comfortable, safe, and easy. Even though it’s destructive, it’s the easy way to go. You don’t have to do any work. You just scratch that itch, and it feels good and you just roll with it. When you start to make these really intentional choices and changes in the way that you think, based on the things I learned in this course and time with Kitty, which then dictates how you behave, it’s SO hard and it feels like, oh gosh, is it always going to be this hard? But what does Kitty always say? You are building that muscle and the more you flex that muscle – such as sharing with friends what I’ve learned – that helps me even more. The feelings will go away, but eventually you learn how to handle the feelings in a productive. Eventually the triggers are not so "trigger-y" anymore. Eventually it gets better! That’s the work you have to do and this course facilitated that in a way that I have not experienced in any other formet. It worked for me, and I like who I am still becoming because of it, even a whole year later! It’s making me a more mindful parent; it’s making me a different kind of employee; it’s bleeding over into all sorts of aspects of my life. It’s not just my relationships, this is about me.

Before we began this program, we were in a state of ignoring issues and just trying to make it through everyday. Now we have the communication tools to resolve conflicts, issues, and emotional triggers quickly. We rely on, support, and trust each other more than ever.